Hey guys! Guess who's back?!
Ok, that was an easy one. I know. Well, let me get you updated on my crazy life(not that you really care). So, let's start with my "Thanksgiving friend" from last blog. So what happened was that she was being really weird and slightly annoying. I didn't mind that. I'm used to it, I kind of have to be in order to put up with myself. It didn't get bad until her boyfriend broke up with her. Problem: Emotional roadshow has been dumped. Even worse: The ex is also my best friend. So she was all messed up from it. As I said earlier, I'm used to it. I get it. Breakups suck. But she decided that since I was still really good friends with her ex, that meant that I had taken him from her. Now, I see where she is coming from; as if it wasn't surprising enough, he left her because one he was tired of her destroying his feelings and two because he didn't really love her anymore. He had a crush on someone else; that someone else, being me. So she was only half wrong. Why? Because, although I did kind of like him a little, I am a good friend. I don't date my friend's exes. So I told her she was wrong. But of course this girl is just not twisted up enough; she heard people spreading rumors that that guy and I are dating and believed it so much that she refused to listen to my denial and reason. She put me through emotional horror for about 2 weeks before I realized I needed to do something about it. So I decided to tell her that she is no longer my close friend. I still, at this point, refused to put her through the pain of having her best friend dating her ex(just because she wasn't my best friend anymore doesn't mean she wasn't still calling me hers), but it was starting to become appealing. She continued to do this and blame me for stuff and tell me things about this guy that, as she claimed, were true, until I finally just gave in. I couldn't handle her anymore. 3 weeks after I had told her we weren't close friends anymore, I broke it to her that I like her ex back and there is nothing she can do about it but, since I'm nice, I won't date him until she's alright with it. By the time that I finally decided to ignore her saying "ok" then crying to me later saying that I'm not allowed to, a month had gone by. I decided to block her on all accounts and then date her ex, who, throughout that whole thing, was the only person who would put himself through emotional hell again just to get her to leave me alone, and was always there to make sure I was alright after dealing with her. He was the sweetest thing to me. He and I both felt bad for treating her the way we did, but after she had made it public that she thought she was officially the next virgin Mary with his baby, we haven't felt much guilt. Now, he and I are doing wonderful.
Or so I think.
In our relationship, I have taken on the role of the male in every way: I shower him with gifts, pay for him, ask him on dates, ask him to prom, etc. I was even the one to ask him out because he "just couldn't find the right moment". It's ok, though, love, I get it that you're broke and that you want it to be perfect. But something you should know is that you can't wait on perfect, you have to make it. I love you <3
